The Rule of St. Benedict - Chapter 2. Qualities Of The Abbot

(30) The abbot must always remember what he is and remember what he is called, aware that more will be expected of a man to whom more has been entrusted.
(31) He must know what a difficult and demanding burden he has undertaken: directing souls and serving a variety of temperaments, coaxing, reproving and encouraging them as appropriate.
(32) He must so accommodate and adapt himself to each one's character and intelligence that he will not only keep the flock entrusted to his care from dwindling, but will rejoice in the increase of a good flock.

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